Monday, April 20, 2009

Wonders of Appreciation

Two friends discussing about their current circumstances:
friend A: "Dude...my job is too boring, I just wanna move out of it!"
friend B: "even mine is quite boring, it pays well...but my boss is too fussy. And dude...atleast you are living in your hometown, with your family...but I am not! I don't want to live in this city"
friend A: "hmmm...but there are lot of restrictions when you live with your family, I would love to live in a different city, it's all too monotonous here"
friend B: "may be...and you know I'm too pissed off because of my current relationship, that girl is quite possessive and sometimes I feel she just expects too much out of me...this is so irritating, I wanna move out of this"
friend A: "dude...I think you are lucky that you have someone in your life, I am longing to be in a relationship, it feels too wonderful to be in love"

What did you notice in the above conversation? These friends are just complaining for whatever they have in their lives. The one who is away from family, craves for it and the other craves for freedom. Though their jobs pay well...but still you are blaming for one thing or the other. The one in love wants to get rid of it, and the other is complaining about the lack of love. Disatisfaction...complaints...frustration...Phew!!!

Is this the way to live life? Certainly not! Life is meant to be enjoyed...and appreciated in every possible way. To change the things, you need to change your thoughts! Rather than complaining about lack of things, appreciate the things that you have. These friends above have lot of good things to be appreciative of, they both have jobs to sustain their lives well. One has his family to be with, then the other has a good chance to build new friendships. The one who is complaining about his relationship, must appreciate his life to bestow him with somone who loves him so much, someone who values him more than her own life!

Now, think about your life. I am sure you must also be complaining about lot of things in your life. But have a clear look at your life, and you will see great things that deserve your appreciation. Appreciate your family, your friends, your colleagues. When you spend time in nature, appreciate the beauty of nature, appreciate the coolness of refreshing air, appreciate the music of flowing water, and appreciate sweet melody of singing birds. Appreciate your life for giving you so much. And you know what, appreciation will come back to you in many folds. You will begin to receive appreciation for your work in your office, you will be appreciated for the love and care you show towards your family and friends. The life will give you even more things to be appreciative of, and will deliver great opportunities for which you will get phenomenal appreciation.

Make appreciation an integral part of your life...and witness the wonders of appreciation in every day of your life!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Magic of Gratitude

What you are about to read has the power to transform your life forever, it is a simple law of the universe but it is infallible and stands true, no matter who you are, where you are, and what you do!

When you wake up in the morning, what is the first thought that normally comes to your mind? In most of the cases, people tend to worry about going to their workplace, hassles of the day ahead, and feeling of resentment that they don't have something that they want. Such thoughts serve no good, they rather add to your misery. So, just wipe out negativity from your life.

Tomorrow morning when you wake up, just fill your mind with positive thoughts of gratitude. No matter in what phase of life you are, there are always things in your life for which are grateful. Be thankful to God that he has given you a shelter to sleep, food to eat, and clothes to wear. Then, be grateful for having your family by your side, having good friends, having a good job to sustain life, and be most thankful for the fact that you are alive to enjoy the spectacular journey called life! Big or small, appreciate and value goodness in your life.

Fill yourself with the sense of gratitude and be ready for a bright new day. You will get to see the magic of gratitude within few days, you will attract great happiness and joy in your life. Your gratitude would be paid back to you, you will attain success in your work, in your relationships, and most of all in your own personal domain. Experience this magic, it has the power to fulfill your dreams and make your life as beautiful as you want it to be!