Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Theory of liking and disliking
Everyone present on this earth is the creation of that one divine entity, yet everyone is unique and so different from one another. Agree, many of us have a lot of things in common as well. Sometimes we tend to enjoy our similarities with certain people, and then there are people with whom we enjoy the differences as well! But have you ever wondered that what makes us like or dislike someone? We say that interests and attitude defines our relationship with another person. But it is not necessarily true. How many times you have met a person whom you don't even know properly but you still like him and feel like being with him? On the other hand, we witness people who have done no harm to us but we still tend to dislike them. Isn't that true? So, it's not the interests and attitude that makes us like or dislike someone. Actually, we all have an invisible "aura" around us, and we all exhibit certain vibes. It is a game of matching vibes and compatible aura that makes us gel with other person. And yes, that divine entity provides us with clues all the time by making use of "aura" and vibes. Now, the next time you encounter someone (not the ones who you know really well), try to see their "aura" and try to feel their vibes. These things can tell you what you can't even imagine!
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I m partially gratify with the "Theory of linking and disliking". I think Interest and Attitude are the foundation of "aura" and "vibes", people are differentiated on the basis of interests and attitude. It has to be either interest OR attitude OR mixture of both that motivates a person to like and dislike others. I believe there are lots of other aspects involved as well that contributes to aura, vibes, waves etc. So it will be unjustified if we will talk about the "Theory of Liking and disliking" keeping asside interest and attitude.
well...I never said that attitude and interests make no difference! They certainly play an important part, what I mean is that vibes are important during initial encounter with a person...because at that time you don't know about other person's interests or attitude! This theory goes well for unxplained attachment that we sometimes feel for a "no so well known" person.
I agree with you, as I have experienced it most of the times. Whenever I meet somebody, the comfort level or the conversation topics...everything depends on how I gel with that person. If this theory would have not been correct, then I guess nobody would have ever thought of love at first sight!!!
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